Your perception of life does not have to be based on outside circumstances. We cannot change the actions of others. We have limited control over what happens to us. Many of us waste time trying to control other people and outside situations and end up stressed. However, through the power of the Holy Spirit we can have total control over our perception of life.
With the new mind that is available to all Christians we can get over anything. Do not waste your time focusing on things that you cannot change. The Holy Spirit will give you more of God’s mind if you allow Him to. You can approach life the way God meant you to; with clear direction and serenity. Believe that God can give you the strength to forgive, love, be patient, and truly succeed.