bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive Colossians 3:13 ESV
Life can be unbearable sometimes. People hurt us; knowingly and unknowingly. When we focus on all the ways people have wronged us, and we all have our own list, we let bitterness heap on top of the initial pain. We get offended and we want revenge. ‘Forgiveness’ is a forbidden word in the church. We just don’t want to do it!
Whatever it is; you must let it go. This may seem impossible, but you can do it. As a Christian new life in Christ allows you to be free from the bondage of bitterness and wrath. You don’t have to be bitter. You don’t have to get upset every time you remember what happened. You can be free. Let go, love, and live your best life!